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Bravery

“There’s no safe way to be bold and live your dreams,” I wrote to myself this morning. “In every choice, we are either moving toward love or fear.” I know fear and worry. It’s my default mindset and stance. But … Continue reading

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Loving the link

The mind-body connection. We all experience it from time to time but it becomes so clear in extreme cases. The other day, I was having a very exhausting, traumatic conversation with a distressed person whom I love so much. Unable … Continue reading

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More loads, more love

The more you give the more you love. That’s why in general parents simply love their children more than the other way round. This morning as I doted on my 3 month old baby – combing out her cradle cap, … Continue reading

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Dear Noa

Dear Noa, What a 2 years and nearly 10 months it’s been. You, the quintessential first child and I, the classic A-type personality first-time mother. Throw in some unusual tailor-made challenges like your corrective heart surgery in Boston and we … Continue reading

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Light of Empowerment

Being a victim comes with a heavy price. It almost never works for long to get people on your side and somehow has the opposite effect. The very people one intends to arouse sympathy from almost always pull further away. … Continue reading

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One Beat Off

I love and hate that where I live is home to so many amazing and creative people. All around are people expressing and living their part with passion. As much as it stirs something within, it also highlights that I … Continue reading

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Revival

Things don’t remain the same. They either grow or decay, and without effort, my blog has lost momentum. But it’s not too late, and my plan is to revive and heal it. Make myself a space to write freely and … Continue reading

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Reversing Gravity

Climbing upward on a downward spiral is truly gruelling. When I fall, I tumble so surely and swiftly that it feels kind of impossible to ever get back up. I want so badly to erase the fall, to go back … Continue reading

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As Is

Desperate for a shift. For routine, structure, movement, balance, normalcy, creativity, support and air. Yet, with all my conscientious efforts to create this, here I am stuck at a dead end. And no signs, which makes it hard for me … Continue reading

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Unnecessary Apologies

A moment of awkwardness as I explain away the fact that unlike what I expect they expect, she does not like to be held. I fumble an apology feeling like in some way it must be something I did wrong … Continue reading

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